May 24, 2011April 10, 2023the parenting files Finding our life “Mama, what do you want to do with me that’s fun!” I look around at the breakfast dishes still on the table, […] Read more
April 26, 2011April 10, 2023the parenting files There will be no songs Sometimes you are the reason your child is crying herself to sleep with loud and desperate sobbing. Sometimes instead of being the […] Read more
February 23, 2011April 10, 2023the parenting files Dear mother of a toddler, This first published at MOBsociety, but I’m putting it here too because I know some of you won’t click over. This morning […] Read more
December 23, 2010April 10, 2023I want to remember, life with short people, the parenting files, this life together thing The Girl is Seven I still stare at you, the long skinny girl in front of me and wonder where my chubby little baby girl with […] Read more
November 30, 2010April 10, 2023life with short people, the parenting files, this life together thing Mean He hangs in the door of my office and I can tell from his face that something is wrong. “What is it […] Read more
November 19, 2010April 10, 2023I want to remember, life with short people, the parenting files 3 months Dear Jellybean, You are 3 months old already. I completely forgot about writing you a monthly letter like I did for Little […] Read more
October 24, 2010April 10, 2023family, I want to remember, life with short people, One Thousand Gifts, the parenting files 9 years old You drew Obi Wan and General whatshisface fighting on your cake yourself. Dear Boy, May I just begin by saying I really […] Read more
October 15, 2010April 10, 2023life with short people, the everyday, the parenting files When Emotions are Tyrants. Her face is still red and splotchy from crying as she calls out cheerily, “Good night Mama. Have a good sleep.” It’s […] Read more
October 7, 2010April 10, 2023daily moments, poetry, the parenting files Tension It’s a tricky thing to get it right. Pull it tight Let it slide Keep it consistent Always consistent I help her […] Read more
September 27, 2010April 10, 2023analyzing the ties that bind, The I'm not perfect club, the parenting files In Search of Strength Sometimes it sinks me, how I miss it when it’s right in front of my face. I trade task for person again […] Read more